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Your Questions About Gardening

GardenersCardiff — Fri, 26 Oct 2012 12:05:05 +0000

Betty asks…

How do educated Islamic people put up with this?

Okay, I don’t mean to lash out at anyone. I have loads of friends who are Islamic, yet, I have trouble comprehending some of this.

# Have sex with your women whenever and as often as you like. 2:223

# Women have rights that are similar to men, but men are “a degree above them.” 2:228

# A woman is worth one-half a man. 2:282

# Marry of the women two, or three, or four. 4:3

# Males are to inherit twice that of females. 4:11

# Lewd women are to be confined to their houses until death. 4:15

# You may not forcibly inherit women, unless they flagrantly lewd. 4:19

# Instructions for exchanging wives 4:20

# “All married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess.”
You can’t have sex with married women, unless they are slaves obtained in war (with whom you may rape or do whatever you like). 4:24

# Men are in charge of women, because Allah made men to be better than women. Refuse to have sex with women from whom you fear rebellion, and scourge them. 4:34

# Don’t pray if you are drunk, dirty, or have touched a woman lately. 4:43

# Women are feeble and are unable to devise a plan. 4:98

# They invoke in his (Allah’s) stead only females. 4:117

# A man cannot treat his wives fairly. 4:129

# “Unto the male is the equivalent share of two females.” 4:176

# When it’s time to pray and you have just used the toilet or touched a woman, be sure to wash up. If you can’t find any water, just rub some dirt on yourself. 5:6

# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 11:78

# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 15:71

# When the doom of Allah comes, pregnant women will suffer miscarriages, nursing mothers with forget their babies. 22:1-2

# You don’t have to be modest around your wives or your slave girls “that your right hand possess.” 23:6

# If you accuse an honorable women of adultery, be sure to bring four witness. Otherwise you will receive 80 lashes. 24:4

# A husband can accuse his wife of adultery with only one witness. 24:6

# Believing women must lower their gaze and be modest, cover themselves with veils, and not reveal themselves except to their husbands, relatives, children, and slaves. 24:31

# If Muhammad’s wives are good, Allah will give them “an immense reward.” 33:28-29

# The wives of Muhammad will be punished double for lewdness. (And that is easy for Allah.) 33:30

# The wives of Muhammad are not like other women. They must not leave their houses. 33:32-33

# When Allah or Muhammad decide that a man and a woman should marry, they must marry. 33:36

# Allah gave Zeyd to Muhammad in marriage. This was so that all Muslims would know that it’s OK to marry your adopted son’s ex-wife. 33:37

# Allah says it is lawful for Muhammad to marry any women he wants. 33:50-51

# If men must speak to Muhammad’s wives they must speak from behind a curtain. And no one must ever marry one of his wives. 33:53

# But it’s OK for Muhammad’s wives to talk with certain people. 33:55

# Women must cover themselves when in public. 33:59

# Those who “did wrong” will go to hell, and their wives will go to hell with them (no matter how they behaved). 37:22-23

# But the single-minded slaves of Allah will enjoy a Garden filled with lovely-eyed virgins. 37:40-48

# Female companions await those who enter the Gardens of Eden on the Day of Reckoning. 38:52

# Allah will reward faithful Muslims after they die with “fair ones with wide, lovely eyes.” 44:54

# Allah will reward those in the Garden with beautiful wives with wide, lovely eyes. 52:20

# Those who disbelieve in the afterlife give female names to angels. 53:27

# Allah will give those in the Garden women of modest gaze whom neither man nor jinn have touched before them. 55:56

# Allah will reward believing men with “fair ones” (beautiful women) in heaven. 55:71-72

# Those in the Garden will be attended by immortal youths with wide, lovely eyes. 56:17-23

# Allah made virgins to be lovers and friends to those on his right hand. 56:36-37

# Your wives and children are your enemies. They are to you only a temptation. 64:14-15

# Instructions for divorcing your wives. 65:1-6

# Allah’s rules for divorcing wives that have not yet reached puberty. 65:4

# Muhammad’s wives need to be careful. If they criticize their husband, Allah will replace them with better ones. 66:5

# The wives of Noah and Lot (who were both righteous) betrayed their husbands and are now in the Fire. 66:10

# Doom is about to fall on all disbelievers. Only worshippers (Muslims) and those who preserve their chastity (except with their wives and slave girls) will be spared from “the fires of hell” that are “eagar to roast.” 70:1-30

# You don’t have to be chaste around your wives or your slave girls. 70:29-30

How do you explain this as being your religion? I understand that every religion does have the questionable but this is as far as I’
lol, that’s not my real name: it’s a nickname my friends gave me- after a character in a movie and because my real name, which is hard to pronounce, is similar to that one

GardenersCardiff answers:

The same way educated Christians explain the misogynistic, sociopathic, and idiotic aspects of the Bible.

Sandra asks…

Will this be out of line if I do this?

I take the trash to the landfill for my parents.

I also garden and grow my own food.

Well, my mom keeps putting water melon rinds in the trash bin.

I wrote her a note, told her how I feel, explained to her why she shouldn’t, basically because it makes a huge mess, no matter what bags we use, it always seeps outside through even three bags.

Even my Dad got involved.

I made her a compost bin right near the deck, to make it easy for her.

SHE STILL REFUSES!

And who’s left to deal with the garbage juice?

So since she obviously doesn’t understand, next time, I was thinking about taking the bag she puts the rinds in, and just sitting it back on the kitchen floor near the trash.

Like the trash can rejected it.

I’m sorry, but over three times, almost 5 probably of letting her know, writing a note, and getting my Dad involved all on separate occasions, you think she’d get the picture, no?

Also, she likes to get on people’s nerves for kicks, she’s been that way her whole life. As a side note.
Just keep reminding her and let her keep on doing it?

How is that fair?

Why don’t I just stop taking out the trash?

GardenersCardiff answers:

No, this is the wrong way to approach it. You need to be the mature one here and rise above petty antics like that. Just keep reminding her.

Linda asks…

I have improved this story, what do you think?

A Life On Board A Slave Ship

Chapter one: The Siege Sunrise

In the year 1880 was the year me and my people from an African tribe called, ‘The African Crusaders’, were captured by other African tribes to be sold as slaves to the Americans the same day. Here is how my fellow brothers captured me and my tribe members.

It was a hot summer’s day; the air was as dry as a desert, the children playing under the scorching, shimmering, sweltering sun and our women doing the washing and cleaning to prepare for lunch. Everything and everyone was as it was any other day, ordinary with no big events or news. Just like a blank piece of paper.

I was walking towards an ocean which was approximately twenty degrees west of my tribe, but before I could go to the ocean I had to say to my wife where I was so that she could be at ease and not worry as much. So I walked back like a dog would return to its master, to my hut under the blazing rays of the sun god. I entered covered with more sweat. I said to my wife as politely as I could,

‘Sasha, I will take a walk to the ocean to cool off with some of its cold water.’
‘That is alright,’ replied Sasha whilst doing the washing and said,

‘Do not be late for lunch; I have made your special meal.’ Sasha put down the plate she was holding and the cloth she was using, as if forgetting where she was. Sasha waited for me to guess. I could see that there was extreme, eternal, excitement in Sasha’s gleaming, glittery, glossy, marble-like eyes. From her expressive, easy-to-read eyes I could tell what she meant by special meal.

‘Pap with pork?’ I asked as hastily as a humming bird flapping its wings.
‘That is the one dear’, nodded Sasha was like a continuous circle clock ticking. Sasha picked up another plate and carried on cleaning the rest. Swish, swish, swish was the sound that Sasha made; whilst cleaning the dirty, disastrous, devastating plates with the clean cloth in her hand.

I was feeling as happy as a child learning to hunt when I got out of my small, sweet, hut. This is because my wife Sasha will be cooking ‘my special meal’ for lunch; usually I have pap without meat at lunch, but instead I have it with the green vegetables my wife and I grow in our beautifully healthy garden. I raised my arms into the air and stretched. I could hear my bones clicking like fingers, this and that side of my dark, masculine and soft skinned body.

I started to walk towards the crystal like ocean without hesitation. I could see it front of me, like an eagle, the blue, blissful ocean. There was no one around the ocean; this gave me an opportunity to have a quick and sneaky bathe. I lifted my leg into the air like a blue crane would and dipped my foot into the water very fast, which made me lose my balance on the other foot which was rooted to the earth like a great oak tree. I fell into the water. Splash! I had caused the ocean to ripple around me.

‘Ahh, this feels so good’, I thought whilst being in the cold, blizzard like water.

I was about to go under the cool, crystal, cyan water when suddenly I heard screams of terror. My ears suddenly popped which made me quickly jump with fear out of the water. As soon as I heard the screams I ran towards my tribe to see what was happening. I stopped under an oak tree, which was near my tribe, which looked like an umbrella. I revealed my head and saw that my tribe had been infested by our brothers from another tribe this made me feel great, grotesque, gruesome rage. I haltingly hid behind the oak tree like a damned coward. I realized that I could do nothing; I looked down towards my open hand and I could see it wrapping its self into a rock. My hand wrapped its self so hard that my hand started to shake like a rattle snake. I could see my veins nearly coming out of my wrist. My hand had stopped shaking. It unwrapped its self and there was blood coming out of my palm. I looked closely at my palm and saw that there were four scars. Then I looked at my nails. They were covered by blood.

‘How could you betray your people, your kind, your brothers and sisters!?’ I thought to myself silently whilst the blood from my palm ran down along my arm like a grass snake.

From afar I could see children and babies having to be killed right in front of the women; the women screamed from grief and pain, because their children had been slain like a worthless animal right in front of their eyes.

Men in my tribe were fighting our brothers who betrayed us with their bare hands and feet, like a monkey gone mad, because they killed their children who meant so much to them. Seeing their wives in grief and pain made them even angrier. My eyes felt like they were burning,

‘Why am I here hiding when I am supposed to be protecting my tribe and the people that live in it?’ I thought to myself angrily.

I stepped out of my hiding place and began to run silently towards my tribe. The burning sun god had made the earth beneath my feet as hot as
I do not want answers like; i have a life or that you think it is long. Just tell me if the story is ok or not. I asked this question expecting help, not silly critisisim. Please and thank you.
This is for my coursework, and well they do not care much about the story as much as the techniques as possible. But thanks for your constructive critisisim Kay.

GardenersCardiff answers:

Okay. Here’s my constructive criticism:
First of all, I think there are WAY too many similes.
1. The air was as dry as a desert
2. Just like a blank piece of paper.
3. So I walked back like a dog would return to its master
4. I asked as hastily as a humming bird flapping its wings.
5. Sasha was like a continuous circle clock ticking
6. I was feeling as happy as a child learning to hunt when I got out of my small, sweet, hut.
7. I could hear my bones clicking like fingers
8. I could see it front of me, like an eagle
9. My hand started to shake like a rattle snake.
10. Whilst the blood from my palm ran down along my arm like a grass snake.
11. Men in my tribe were fighting our brothers who betrayed us with their bare hands and feet, like a monkey gone mad

It’s TOO much. And most of them are unnecessary. Don’t keep most of them.

Also, don’t add so many adjectives to describe one thing…
1. The scorching, shimmering, sweltering sun
2. I could see that there was extreme, eternal, excitement in Sasha’s gleaming, glittery, glossy, marble-like eyes.
3. Cool, crystal, cyan water
4. Great, grotesque, gruesome rage

Way too much, in my opinion. People don’t like to read so many adjectives in one sentence. Describe it gradually. And why so many alliterations?

Also, try to make the dialogue a little more realistic.

Just make sure you READ a lot– and practice! Because this seems a bit immaturely written. But keep writing.

I hope I helped, good luck!

Your Questions About Gardening

GardenersCardiff — Wed, 10 Oct 2012 12:05:05 +0000

Lisa asks…

Can some one please give me some advice?

I’m 17 years old and I feel like I have wasted my whole life trying to find myself. I’m not good at anything, I’ve never accomplished much. I’ve failed 3 times and I’m so far behind it makes me angry. All of my other family and friends are graduating, and I’m not even close. I attend school online because I have anxiety attacks when I’m around large groups of people. Even though online school is much easier for me, I lack the motivation needed to finish my classes. I always ask for help when doing assignments because I can never concentrate enough to understand a problem. This makes me feel stupid, as if I’ll never be able to finish school because I’m not smart enough to meet the standards. I’m always irritated, and most of the time I’m not sure why.
I moved in my boyfriend about a year ago. I love him a lot but most of the time I can’t stand to be around him. He never lets me do anything. He never respects that fact that I like to be left alone once in a while, and when I say that its makes him want to annoy me until we start fighting. He also has a habit that I’m sick and tired of, he constantly talks to girls on the internet. Adds hundreds of girls he doesn’t even know on Facebook, and pretends to be in a relationship with them. I’m constantly stuck in a house with 7 people that treat me like a 2 year old. I can’t participate in my normal hobbies because everyone thinks I’m incapable of doing anything. I have many things I like to do in my free time, such as cooking. I’m unabled to cook the way I would like to because everytime I’m near the stove the whole house thinks I’m going to ruin the food. I know how to cook, and I cook great, I just want to be able to share my cooking skills with my boyfriend without being shoved away from the stove. I’ve tried gardening, but the one time I did buy soil, some starting pots, and some seeds, every one thought it was like a charity and they used all my stuff to grow they’re own stuff. It made me really angry because I spent about $55 on gardening things, and I didn’t even get to use it. I can’t even play video games anymore because of the constant nagging in my ear of, “girls shouldn’t play video games”, “you suck”, and “Your dead, now its my turn.” I can’t enjoy life anymore if I’m stuck in this house.
I know I should probably get out of this situation, and I have tried. I’ve packed all my things and moved them back into my parents house, but he walked all the way to my house, sat on my doorstep and cried until I came out.
I’m not sure what to do anymore, all I need is help, but I can’t find it.
Can some one please give me some advice?

GardenersCardiff answers:

Sigh….I know EXACTLY how you feel. Someone once told me, the past is the past, there is nothing you can do to change that. The best you can do is to move on and do better than before. The only way you can know what you’re good at is to expose yourself to different things. Start with things you like or things that interest you. As far as games, if you want to play, go right ahead. I like girls that can play video games. Definitely a plus for me. And don’t think that a change of address will change your life. If you work hard and do well where you DON’T like to be then imagine how you’ll do where you’re most comfortable. The more you start taking responsibility then the more people will respect you and the more you will be trusted with and be allowed to do.

Joseph asks…

Do muslims agree with the quran?

With what the quran says

Quran:

Have sex with your women whenever and as often as you like. 2:223
# Women have rights that are similar to men, but men are “a degree above them.” 2:228
# A woman is worth one-half a man. 2:282
# Marry of the women two, or three, or four. 4:3
# Males are to inherit twice that of females. 4:11
# Lewd women are to be confined to their houses until death. 4:15
# You may not forcibly inherit women, unless they flagrantly lewd. 4:19
# Instructions for exchanging wives 4:20
# “All married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess.” You can’t have sex with married women, unless they are slaves obtained in war (with whom you may rape or do whatever you like). 4:24
# Men are in charge of women, because Allah made men to be better than women. Refuse to have sex with women from whom you fear rebellion, and scourge them. 4:34
# Don’t pray if you are drunk, dirty, or have touched a woman lately. 4:43
# Women are feeble and are unable to devise a plan. 4:98
# They invoke in his (Allah’s) stead only females. 4:117
# A man cannot treat his wives fairly. 4:129
# “Unto the male is the equivalent share of two females.” 4:176
# When it’s time to pray and you have just used the toilet or touched a woman, be sure to wash up. If you can’t find any water, just rub some dirt on yourself. 5:6
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 11:78
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 15:71
# When the doom of Allah comes, pregnant women will suffer miscarriages, nursing mothers with forget their babies. 22:1-2
# You don’t have to be modest around your wives or your slave girls “that your right hand possess.” 23:6
# If you accuse an honorable women of adultery, be sure to bring four witness. Otherwise you will receive 80 lashes. 24:4
# A husband can accuse his wife of adultery with only one witness. 24:6
# Believing women must lower their gaze and be modest, cover themselves with veils, and not reveal themselves except to their husbands, relatives, children, and slaves. 24:31
# If Muhammad’s wives are good, Allah will give them “an immense reward.” 33:28-29
# The wives of Muhammad will be punished double for lewdness. (And that is easy for Allah.) 33:30
# The wives of Muhammad are not like other women. They must not leave their houses. 33:32-33
# When Allah or Muhammad decide that a man and a woman should marry, they must marry. 33:36
# Allah gave Zeyd to Muhammad in marriage. This was so that all Muslims would know that it’s OK to marry your adopted son’s ex-wife. 33:37
# Allah says it is lawful for Muhammad to marry any women he wants. 33:50-51
# If men must speak to Muhammad’s wives they must speak from behind a curtain. And no one must ever marry one of his wives. 33:53
# But it’s OK for Muhammad’s wives to talk with certain people. 33:55
# Women must cover themselves when in public. 33:59
# Those who “did wrong” will go to hell, and their wives will go to hell with them (no matter how they behaved). 37:22-23
# But the single-minded slaves of Allah will enjoy a Garden filled with lovely-eyed virgins. 37:40-48
# Female companions await those who enter the Gardens of Eden on the Day of Reckoning. 38:52
# Allah will reward faithful Muslims after they die with “fair ones with wide, lovely eyes.” 44:54
# Allah will reward those in the Garden with beautiful wives with wide, lovely eyes. 52:20
# Those who disbelieve in the afterlife give female names to angels. 53:27
# Allah will give those in the Garden women of modest gaze whom neither man nor jinn have touched before them. 55:56
# Allah will reward believing men with “fair ones” (beautiful women) in heaven. 55:71-72
# Those in the Garden will be attended by immortal youths with wide, lovely eyes. 56:17-23
# Allah made virgins to be lovers and friends to those on his right hand. 56:36-37
# Your wives and children are your enemies. They are to you only a temptation. 64:14-15
# Instructions for divorcing your wives. 65:1-6
# Allah’s rules for divorcing wives that have not yet reached puberty. 65:4
# Muhammad’s wives need to be careful. If they criticize their husband, Allah will replace them with better ones. 66:5
# The wives of Noah and Lot (who were both righteous) betrayed their husbands and are now in the Fire. 66:10
# Doom is about to fall on all disbelievers. Only worshippers (Muslims) and those who preserve their chastity (except with their wives and slave girls) will be spared from “the fires of hell” that are “eagar to roast.” 70:1-30
# You don’t have to be chaste around your wives or your slave girls. 70:29-30
~

GardenersCardiff answers:

I disagree.

Daniel asks…

the sheep and the goats?

when was the last time you had to go into hospital for treatment?
if you were seriously ill but were looked after until you were better, did you feel grateful to the people who made you better?
i’m sure you have heard people say i am really grateful to someone because they helped me when i was down….the entire human family is down in a literal sense ever since the rebellion in the garden of eden.
because of the unwise choice adam and eve made in disobeying god
in eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and bad, they lost their physical perfection along with the prospect of living forever and instead they inherited imperfection and along with that was sin which brought death to them.
and because they were no longer perfect and now under the sentence of death, they passed that onto us their children.
now thats where our creator stepped in on our behalf by transferring his first born son (who we now know was and is jesus) into the womb of mary who gave birth to him and when it was the appointed time jesus went to be babtised and then he began preaching and telling people to repent, learn the truth about god, get babtised and join in with the preaching campaign.
now there are many organizations today that preach to people but
jesus mentioned when he was on earth that there would be religious imposters that would rise up in order to mislead people.
and there would also be the genuine christians who are loyal and faithful to jesus and the first century christians.
now we are living in modern day times, who would you say are the ones that are loyal and faithful and which ones are the imposters?
if you have found the genuine christians, would you be willing to learn the truth about god and jesus and dedicate your life to god and there after live to do his will which is to preach the good news of gods kingdom?
would you be willing to change any bad habits that go against gods standards in order to be acceptable to god?
or are you more used to setting your own standards as to what is right and wrong?
remember the fatal error of adam and eve who decided to go against what they were told was wrong…and with that thought in mind, would you say it is wise or unwise to obey god?
also what would you say prevents you from being humble and submitting to our creator?
is it pride?
fear?
a lack of humility?
a feeling that you are signing your lives away?
the thought of no longer setting your own standards?
sooner or later we will all have to make a decision
because jehovahs witnesses have long been warning us of gods soon to come adverse judgement against the corrupt system with live under.
the bible clearly states that all of us who fail to obey gods witnesses
will be destroyed as well as those of us that dont know god.
only those that do obey and know god will be spared.
but more importantly is that the world empire of false religion (babylon the great) will be turned against by the political powers and destroyed.
we are living in the time of that fullfillment.
in that day gods true worshippers will be vidicated because they are the only ones that preach and warn people of that.
the bible also says that once false religion has be removed, the political powers will turn against jehovahs witnesesses
but that will prove to be a fatal error because thats when god almighty will respond on his worshippers behalf and that is the day described as armedgedon.
so basically everyday is a chance for all of us to as it were turn around and bring our lives into harmony with gods requirements because the afore said things without fail will occur and if we are not ready we wont survive.
now is the time for us to sober up and take it seriously.
and i can tell you that to do so is not easy
because we as people are so used to doing things our own way
which makes obedience to god through his people a real challenge
because we find that pride often gets in the way.
we tend to say, who are you to tell me what to do?
or i’ll do things my way!
or i dont want to change!
everyday i struggle to come to terms with the fact that if i wish to survive armedgeddon, i need to submit to do gods will.
that seems to be something none of us want to do.
would you do it?
sorry sirensong
i wrote far too much
but i’m grateful for your advice.
yes geordie
sorry, i tend to write far too much, thats a fault i have yet to overcome.
i guess i’m just bubbling over with concern from what i have learnt and i just want to do my bit in order to inspire people to at least listen to what gods people are trying to say to us.
sirensong
thanks for at least being open and honest with your thoughts at present.

and in regard to there being no evidence of god,
the evidence is you and i and the universe and everything in it.
remember too that god is a spirit which is invisible therefore he cannot be seen with the human eye
also the bible says that humans cannot see god and remain alive in the same way bright lights force us to look away or squint.
you cant see me but you know i exist because i am writing to you
and i know you exist because you responded to me.
god has written to us via his word the bible.

GardenersCardiff answers:

Just remember Jehovah is asking us to be spiritual people now and to keep our integrity to him and we will be able to subdue the earth and enjoy all that is in it at a later time when no resident will say, “I’m sick.”

Your Questions About Gardening

GardenersCardiff — Sun, 02 Sep 2012 12:05:02 +0000

Paul asks…

what does this dream mean part 3 of 3?

I am running around a garden late in the middle of
the night and my boss a gangster is teaching a your
man to shot and all about espionage.Now i seem to be running through a garden of a friends i loved as a kid.I can hide so well and they seem to walk right past me and not even notice me hiding in the bushes or under tree’s.Now the gangstar says to the kid lets actually kill not realising i am so close to him.
i am shocked so i run through the gardens on to the
street where i see a garden i can hide in.
i run into the garden and i run towards a fence that
is made of metal.i see this fence and realise it would
be easy for me to get over but i know that it would be
sore and uncomfortable to climb over so i just stand
in the shadow far from them waiting for day.
Now as i look to my left i see a woman wearing a berry
cap and black glasses so that suggest to me she is
french and she cants see a thing.i know her or trust her and she walks around to the front of the house and we talk about>>>
4 children that
the gangstar had got rid of.
we lean over a soft a hedge and we see an image and
she narrates what happens to me,
Four kids seem to be surrounded by an 40s or 50s
styled dressed people in japan or china.they seem to
be rich men or i dont know.
they start wrapping the kids in paper and eventually
the kids look like cartoons very 3D like and so
sad.there made of paper .i seem to end up finding my
way there and as i try to find them i have to pull
down pages and pop up pages out of books to get to
them.eventually i give in and take a route in the book
to the professors library where the book is not
finished,i pull the page down and on the back there
are bottles and booksi get annoyed and start wripping
the pages and then i just slam the book shut.the book
falls over and dissapears.then the four kids are
standing on stools still like cartoon 3d like figures
and they all seem sad.
thats where i wake up

GardenersCardiff answers:

Boss a gangster = anger towards high authority
run and hide from gardens = seeking protection.
A woman appear again = your desire.

Well, this dream deals with some high authority, You may not like what the high authority has criticised or talked to you at work. You are seeking places or situation to hide from criticism. You probably don’t get want you think you should deserve in real life. However, you may not care about that at all. Because you ultimate desire is something else. I have notice you have woman at the end of your every dream. That woman could be your desire or could be someone you trust and depend on the most. It could be your close relationship, girl friend, spouse or even mother. This desire may be the centre of your dream. You cannot end your dream without this figure/desire at the end. I think you should know who or what that is.

Again, you dream is tough to analyse. That is the best I can do…

George asks…

what is inside the deep in seeking more and more?

please read it carefully ; [copied from one of my answers ]
too much of everything is bad ,. if u will love someone too much ,the results will make u irritated. . , i m also searching for the power to fulfill my peace of mind . last year i got the success ,but do u know what happened? i got the power to make any difficult task easy, but i couldnot do anything for the person to which i love up to extreme . the reason was that i wanted 5 oranges [for example ] to end my thirst ,i searched hard but nobody helped me in providing just even the address of place where oranges are available, then i left the desire truly . as soon i left the desire , i got the garden where all type of fruits were available including thousands of oranges . and i was made the owner of that garden by an unknown power of nature [ god] . i got ashamed of myself that i was weeping for 5 oranges only . i further left that garden and allowed people to enjoy the fruits ,,,,,. i was on a away where a complete forest existed having many gardens of that type ,,,,. i was gifted that whole forest . i enjoyed the way ,i was getting more and more . that way was the sacrifice of desires from heart . i keep on loving sacrifice . soon i was the king of universe…. the god . do u know what happened next ……? i was no more a normal person, normal husband, normal son or normal businessman. all world was mine .i loved all world . but the world was not understanding me except some great personalities. i joined the family of those who were already on that stage . i was enlightened by and gifted with divine knowledge . i got amazing joyness which is beyond description . what happened next ……? i had to choose the desire of 5 oranges again for returning to the normal stage of mind and real life . that was a big tragidy ……!. what i was learned by this experience that i should not go so deep in anything .i should choose 5 oranges when i was having garden . i should not seek more than my deep desire ,although the way i could do was a legal way or easy beautiful way. my guru ji [ RAHI MOHINDER SINGH ]says ,EVEN TOO MUCH RECITING THE NAME OF GOD IS ALSO BAD . so keep on loving u love ,but remain alright. [ please note there are gaps between the story which means some more truths were there ]
ACTUALLY THE STAGE OF BECOMING KING OF UNIVERSE WAS VERY GRACEFUL,but even a king can not drive his kingdom throughout day and night alone , he has to appoint some helpers , because even the king has his own family and sleep . ….even god needs rest ! [that was from one gap ]
when we get success in our life as for what we were struggling from our birth to the time of success , ONE CIRCLE OF OUR LIFE IS COMPLETED. we again starts from ZERO [ I respect that zero] .that zero stage is called salvation or MUKTI [ in punjabi language]. some people get this stage during their life and then helping others becomes their next target of life . [that was from another gap]
Dear friend ,my problem is that ,i know very well the results,then why i am going to have painful desires ?

GardenersCardiff answers:

Very nice story my friend.
By story: Your inner desire (nature) pulled you to have the garden instead of taking only 5 oranges. But by that time if you take only 5 oranges, then there will be temporary satisfaction; but again after some days you will have a desire for more oranges. So you have to get more and more to get out of it.
The idea is, by getting more and more, you will not go to that desire again. Because, by the time, you might me knowing that there is nothing in it, as you had more than enough.
This has to happen in all the desires of our present life. So that we will leave those permananty by understanding completely. This gives us the strength to not to ask anything more, find and get in to the altimate.

But … The catch is, by the time when we get out of one desire by having more and more, we might be behind another hundreds of desires.

James asks…

Muslim brother ? Is following really written in Quran ?

I am learning Islam but one friend sent me the following verse from Quran :

# Have sex with your women whenever and as often as you like. 2:223
# Women have rights that are similar to men, but men are “a degree above them.” 2:228
# A woman is worth one-half a man. 2:282
# Marry of the women two, or three, or four. 4:3
# Males are to inherit twice that of females. 4:11
# Lewd women are to be confined to their houses until death. 4:15
# You may not forcibly inherit women, unless they flagrantly lewd. 4:19
# Instructions for exchanging wives 4:20
# “All married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess.” You can’t have sex with married women, unless they are slaves obtained in war (with whom you may rape or do whatever you like). 4:24
# Men are in charge of women, because Allah made men to be better than women. Refuse to have sex with women from whom you fear rebellion, and scourge them. 4:34
# Don’t pray if you are drunk, dirty, or have touched a woman lately. 4:43
# Women are feeble and are unable to devise a plan. 4:98
# They invoke in his (Allah’s) stead only females. 4:117
# A man cannot treat his wives fairly. 4:129
# “Unto the male is the equivalent share of two females.” 4:176
# When it’s time to pray and you have just used the toilet or touched a woman, be sure to wash up. If you can’t find any water, just rub some dirt on yourself. 5:6
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 11:78
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 15:71
# When the doom of Allah comes, pregnant women will suffer miscarriages, nursing mothers with forget their babies. 22:1-2
# You don’t have to be modest around your wives or your slave girls “that your right hand possess.” 23:6
# If you accuse an honorable women of adultery, be sure to bring four witness. Otherwise you will receive 80 lashes. 24:4
# A husband can accuse his wife of adultery with only one witness. 24:6
# Believing women must lower their gaze and be modest, cover themselves with veils, and not reveal themselves except to their husbands, relatives, children, and slaves. 24:31
# If Muhammad’s wives are good, Allah will give them “an immense reward.” 33:28-29
# The wives of Muhammad will be punished double for lewdness. (And that is easy for Allah.) 33:30
# The wives of Muhammad are not like other women. They must not leave their houses. 33:32-33
# When Allah or Muhammad decide that a man and a woman should marry, they must marry. 33:36
# Allah gave Zeyd to Muhammad in marriage. This was so that all Muslims would know that it’s OK to marry your adopted son’s ex-wife. 33:37
# Allah says it is lawful for Muhammad to marry any women he wants. 33:50-51
# If men must speak to Muhammad’s wives they must speak from behind a curtain. And no one must ever marry one of his wives. 33:53
# But it’s OK for Muhammad’s wives to talk with certain people. 33:55
# Women must cover themselves when in public. 33:59
# Those who “did wrong” will go to hell, and their wives will go to hell with them (no matter how they behaved). 37:22-23
# But the single-minded slaves of Allah will enjoy a Garden filled with lovely-eyed virgins. 37:40-48
# Female companions await those who enter the Gardens of Eden on the Day of Reckoning. 38:52
# Allah will reward faithful Muslims after they die with “fair ones with wide, lovely eyes.” 44:54
# Allah will reward those in the Garden with beautiful wives with wide, lovely eyes. 52:20
# Those who disbelieve in the afterlife give female names to angels. 53:27
# Allah will give those in the Garden women of modest gaze whom neither man nor jinn have touched before them. 55:56
# Allah will reward believing men with “fair ones” (beautiful women) in heaven. 55:71-72
# Those in the Garden will be attended by immortal youths with wide, lovely eyes. 56:17-23
# Allah made virgins to be lovers and friends to those on his right hand. 56:36-37
# Your wives and children are your enemies. They are to you only a temptation. 64:14-15
# Instructions for divorcing your wives. 65:1-6
# Allah’s rules for divorcing wives that have not yet reached puberty. 65:4
# Muhammad’s wives need to be careful. If they criticize their husband, Allah will replace them with better ones. 66:5
# The wives of Noah and Lot (who were both righteous) betrayed their husbands and are now in the Fire. 66:10
# Doom is about to fall on all disbelievers. Only worshippers (Muslims) and those who preserve their chastity (except with their wives and slave girls) will be spared from “the fires of hell” that are “eagar to roast.” 70:1-30
# You don’t have to be chaste around your wives or your slave girls. 70:29-30

I AM SHOCKED !!!!!

IS IT REALLY WHAT ISLAM TEACHES ??

GardenersCardiff answers:

Yes its true word to word. Quran is full of such laws and rules. These are written in Sura-al-Nisa.

Regards

Vinay