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George asks…

should i take my sisters to see my mom?

Okay so i got prego with my daughter when i was 18 then got kicked out then when i was 19 my mom dropped my 2 sisters off at my house and never came back to get them and so i got full custody of them and it ruined my sisters they have never been the same i am now 20 and taking care of my daughter and my 2 sisters and am 3 months prego. well my 2 sisters are 4 and 14 and they miss my mom so much and they cry every night and they still do my 4 year old sister made me put a phone in her room so she could hear it if my mom ever called and there will be times when she wants to go on a walk and look for mommy and it hurts me so much because i accualy got in touch with my mom a year ago which was 2 months after she dropped them off with me and she told me she never wanted to see the brats again and i just wish she could see what shes doing to my sisters she is tearing them apart my 15 year old sister takes it easier then the 4 year old. 2 weeks ago i found out where my mom is staying and was trying to figure out weather i should go by and talk to her and see if theres anyway she would come back in my sisters lives or if i should take them by to see her because today which is mothers day my 4 year old sister picked flowers out of the garden and came to me and said can we find mommy and give these to her because i know how much she loves them and that just tore me up its so sad watching them cry every night wishing she would come back. in a way i really do not want my mom to come back in there lives because she is not stable at all and i know she will just run off and leave them again and i do not want then to go through that again i do not think they could handle it and so im leaning more towards not contacting my mom and leaving it alone but then i feel like im letting my sisters down and not helping them see there mom again but i know she does not want to see them because if she did she would of came by to see them because she knows where i live its been a year since they have seen her so i guess it probably would be better if i leave it alone and not contact her right? so do you think it would be better off for them to talk or see there mom again or if i should just leave it alone and tell them that i can not find mom and that she loves them but needs time away? so please suggestions are wanted
see thats the problem i do not think they could handle seeing her then not ever seeing her again so im thinking i will try and talk to my mom and see where it goes from there. and i tottaly agree i would never take them to see her before i talked to her because they would not be able to handle it if my motherdoes not want to see them and trys to slam the door on us or something so i would def talk to my mom before

GardenersCardiff answers:

You are much too young to be dealing with this crap. I would not take your sisters to see your mom until after you’ve talked to her. It would be devastating for your sisters if their mom was distant towards them and that little 4 Y.O is going to expect to stay with her mommy. They need counseling to help them deal with the way their mother has treated them before they even see her IMO. I feel so bad for them and you. I cannot understand how any mother could do that to her 3 beautiful girls. Thank God they have you. But that has also forced you to grow up before your time.The decision is yours. You should consider whether you think your sister can handle seeing their mom. Can they deal with leaving and maybe not seeing her again,ever? As I said previously, talk to your mom privately. She owes it to you and your sisters to give them an explanation as to why she left without telling them. She should be the one explaining herself, not you. She’s gotten away with too much already.******I am very glad you already realize they could not handle seeing her so you will talk to her first. You seem much older than 20. How sad that your own mother who is probably 35 or more is not so grown up. My guess is she isn’t going to want to see them because it will not be easy for her and she sounds as though any time life is hard she leaves. Do you get help (monetary,I mean)? And are you doing this alone? You should E-mail me.

Thomas asks…

Will the night crawlers come?

I live in the mountains, which has a clay based dirt. In my back yard, the dirt is solid, full of prickly weeds, and rocks, assuming no worms would want to crawl on this.
Next door my neighbors have grass in their yard, I usually am able to find night crawlers here after a good rain.
In my back yard, where the property line separates the dirt from the grass, I decided to soak the dirt, and dig a hole ones the water seeped in enough to pool up when I dug the hole.
I filled the hole with the green weeds which grew in my garden, and leaves off of the oak tree. Along with some other leaves and flowers I picked off of some other weeds which were growing.
I made sure to break them up pretty good, and even filled in the hole with some light yellow wood shavings, from a large bag, which some farmers I believe use for bedding for their animals.
I use these same shavings for the worms I have held in captivity, which are keeping my worms alive and healthy.
After I filled up the hole, I placed the dirty on top to fill in the holes.
After this I placed a wooden plank on top of this.
So my question is, will there be night crawlers in this pile? Will they hang out below the wood, which can be lifted to find some curled up on the dirt?
I also have one of those big forks, I forget the actual name, which someone once said he dug it into the dirt, turning it over, to find hundreds of night crawlers.
Will this work that way? How long will it take for my compost pile to eventually turn into dirt, and mud, to attract the worms?
Is there anything else I might add?
Thank you for any answers, advice, opinions and what not.
Please add any little detail you think you might add, even if someone else said so already.

One other thing. There are no street lights up here, so at night it’s completely dark. Because of this, I notice the night crawlers running from the red light that I use. I tried green, and blue as well. They still run. I even put tissue over the light to dim it a bit, and even stood up a little higher all though it makes it difficult to see them.
I have been having a lot of trouble finding them now because of this, unless there is a big rain, the few that are out run from the light due to the fact they are only out about half way, making it easy to notice it.

GardenersCardiff answers:

More than likely it will take some time for many night crawlers to dwell in your compost pit, but don’t give up, keep it moist, mix in some corn meal and when the plant material has rotted, move a few night crawlers to their new home. Here in Alabama, when I was young, fished a lot, and I would bring home the left over bait. I have a huge oak with a lot of leaves under it, you would not believe at the amount of worms in the leaves under it. Good luck.

Chris asks…

I need some good quotes for myspace! I have some too?

–>”The question isn’t, who is going to let me; the question is, who is going to stop me.”
–>We’re so flyyyy, flies loook at us & say daaaaaanggg. 🙂
–>Friends are gods’ way of apologizing for family.
–>Party Hard, Rock N Roll, We’re the class you can’t control, the guys are pimpin’, the girls are fine and we’re the class of 2009!
–>I can’t promise to fix all your problems for you, but I can promise you won’t go through them alone
àWe’re impressed; we’ve never seen such a small Mind in such a big head before.
àDo what makes you happy, in the end; you’re the only person guaranteed to get there.
àYou may be out of my sight, but never out of my mind.
àA best friend will bail you out of jail, but a true friend will be sitting next to you & say, let’s do it again. 🙂
àBeing strong is important, but knowing who you can trust is equally as important.
àIt took this long for me to learn my lesson, cause now all i want is to forget the drama. I finally understand the true meaning of karma.
àIf I had a single flower for each time I thought of you, I could walk my garden forever.
àMy friends are cooler than giraffes & giraffes, their cool. 🙂
àJealousy is a disease so we hope you Get Well Soon!
àI like a person with a sense of individuality. I love expressions, & anything awkward or imperfect, because that’s natural. It’s real.
àBe who you are, and say what you feel, because those who matter, don’t mind. And those who mind don’t matter.
àThe greatest challenge in life is to find someone who knows all your flaws and still loves you.
àSometimes it’s easier to say you don’t care than to explain why you do.
àWe can’t be afraid, so we’re not.
àIf drama were Vodka, our school would be wasted.
àSmile, It may brighten someone’s day.
àUntil you face all of the problems we’ve made, we’ll never change. I’m glad we did.
àDream as if you’ll live forever, live as if you’ll die tomorrow.
àWe’re gonna be tighter than a fat guy in spandex, I can feel it.
àYou’re not young forever, so live while you can.
àIf I write a story about my life, don’t be surprised if your names are in it constantly.
àHold your head high; some people would kill to see you fall.
àWell-behaved women rarely make history.
àLive on the edge and fly, you’re finally alive.
àWhen you have the power, you tend to take advantage of it.
àWe were there, and that was all that mattered.
àDon’t fret over people who talk about you behind you back, it only means you’re 2 steps ahead of them.
àI do fine with history: I wrote it.
àIt takes a summer to build trust, but seconds to destroy it.
àWhen words fail, music speaks.
àWomen are meant to be loved, not understood.
àThe nice thing about living in a small town is that when I don’t know what I’m doing, someone else does.
àThere comes a point in life that you realize who really matters, and who is just there.
àDon’t take life so seriously, no one comes out alive.
àYou learn life as you go on, so do it cute.
àIf I’d observed all the rules, I’d never gotten anywhere.
àLife isn’t about finding yourself; it’s about creating yourself.
àLaugh your heart out, dance in the rain, cherish the moment, ignore the pain, live, love, laugh, life is too short to live with regrets.
àI was a little angry when I found out you were with her, but I laughed it off cause’ she was ugly.
àWe’re only young once, let’s mess it up right.
àSome people can’t control being obnoxious.
àThere’s just something about her that screams, FUN.
àTake a chance and Just Live.
àExperience new things, meet new people, and they just might change your life forever.
àEvery goodbye makes the next hello closer.
àForgiving doesn’t change the past, it just enlarges the future.
àYou don’t realize what it feels like to know their smile isn’t for you anymore.
àI did it because I wanted to, because I needed to, but mainly because you said I couldn’t.
àTake the courage to try it again.
àBeing strong means being able to let go.
àWhy do the same thing everyday when there are billions of chances to try something different?
àIn the end you find out who will always stick around.
àJudge me, and I’ll prove you wrong.
àYou’ll always have that first summer: where it all began.
àThe easiest way to lose something is to want it too bad.
àSaying goodbye isn’t the hard part: Leaving it all behind is the tough part.
àEveryone leaves.
àMemories will always be there.
àLive for the moments you can’t put into words.
àI could write a book on how many insiders we have.
àThey ignore each other, and walk the other way, but I think we both know it wasn’t supposed to end this way.
àThere’s nothing more valuable in life than knowing someone who reminds you of yourself.
àFriendship dwells in the heart. Distance has no boundaries.
àMy Family is crazy: yet I wouldn’t fit in anywhere else.
àWith family, you discover the true meaning of strength.
àLife is too short to spend it unhappy.
àThe scariest thing in life is to wake up old and realiz

GardenersCardiff answers:

Hey girl, I’ll give you 20$ to smile like a donut and peck like a chicken!
See no evil,Hear no evil, Pee no evil!
If I had a nickle every time you tryed to diss me and failed, I’d make more money in a week than Bill Gates makes in a month!
You look gayer than a lesbian!

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Your Questions About Gardening http://gardenerscardiff.co.uk/your-questions-about-gardening-55/ http://gardenerscardiff.co.uk/your-questions-about-gardening-55/#respond Wed, 25 Apr 2012 12:05:02 +0000 http://gardenerscardiff.co.uk/your-questions-about-gardening-55/

George asks…

i need advise on where to start and what to do about my farm.?

I am 23 year old male and am looking to get away i was raised in the country and hate the city. I have children and can understand that a full time profit farm is far from hand but i want to get to that point. i am looking at land near nashville and want to start a nice farm maybe 20 acres or 40 at the most for start up. i am pretty green under the thumb and some equine experience but in my opinion horses are more for hobby and less of a money maker. can anyone shoot some ideas with some tips on easy start ups on a farm? the areas i am looking at are livestocking pigs and when a little more on my feet some cattle. as for others i was talking to my god mother and she brought up gardening and foliage. i have been looking at trees that give good bloom and nice vine flowers that i can use to buetify my farm yet also sell in a farmers market with our candels and other crafts.

sooooooooo long story what would yall say is feesable i am more than willing to answer q and a and maybe get some nice insight i tried to reach out to the circles here but everyone seems to hold a secret “on the next runner up that will take bread off there table”

basic low down of the farm will be
*livestock (what kind and what kind of profit can be made form it)
*foliage (is there a profit here besides the obvious sight on the homefront)
*and also a last tidbit i have read a little adn always been curious maybe beekeeping i hear there honey sells well and also there good for the foliage.
ill have to look into the community that helps and hits home one something i would be interested in.

as for the goats if memory serves me they can destroy pastures pretty quick so what would you recomend for keeping there stomachs full and my fields lush and green lol like i said if memory serves me are they not like sheep and eat all the way down to the root which would result in me replanting fields every year or two but i am in agreement goats are something i might have overlooked for the fact of there produce and there meat value…….

GardenersCardiff answers:

First thing to do is contact the agricultural extension agent for the county you are looking to live in and have a nice talk. It would be best if he/she could meet you at the land you are talking about so they can see what would work best. They are the experts. There are lots of microclimates around the Nashville area, and an ag agent can point you in the right direction.

Second, remember “don’t put all your chickens in one basket”. Diversify. Even on a small farm, you need to have a variety of products just in case of a disaster. If your livestock has some dread disease, you still have the foliage business, for example.

Remember that some crops are not “plant today, harvest in 60 days”. Some like fruit trees take years to mature. Again, diversify to get some quick income.

Betty asks…

hellllp english three?

Question 1 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)
What do the conversations between Elisa and Henry reveal about their relationship?
*They spend much of their time completing separate tasks, only speaking to one another when forced to do so.
*They are kind to one another, and recognize each other’s strengths.
*Henry is clearly a dominant husband, as he does not compliment his wife.
*Elisa hates living on their ranch, and longs for material things Henry cannot provide for her.

Question 2 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

All of the following phrases are used to descibe Elisa in the beginning of the story except:

“Her face was lean and strong and her eyes were clear as water.”

“She wore heavy leather gloves to protect her hands while she worked.”

“The chrysanthemum stems seemed too small and easy for her energy.”

“At the back of the house she dug in the can pile and found two old and battered aluminum saucepans.”

Question 3 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

How does Elisa most closely match the concept of Pigasus?

She admits at times she thinks she can actually fly.

She considers her special gift of gardening to be her only way to showcase all her talent.

She has great strength and power inside, but cannot seem to find a way to let it show.

She desires to have talents and gifts she knows she can never have.

Question 4 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

The stranger’s purpose in the story is to

show Elisa what great strength she has inside.

remind Elisa she must be subservient to all men.

remind Elisa how badly she wants to escape the life she lives.

force Elisa to cook dinner at home rather than go to town for a night out with Henry.

Question 5 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

Why does Steinbeck chose to have Elisa act so strongly as she sits in her dress and rides into town with Henry, only to have her relax in the seat after passing the stranger on the road?

Steinbeck wants to show Elisa cannot concentrate after she and Henry pass the stranger, because she feels so sorry for him.

Steinbeck wants to show Elisa is so angry at the stranger, she can only relax to try to focus on have a nice time at dinner with Henry.

Steinbeck wants to show that Elisa must learn her place in society, and that she should act accordingly.

Steinbeck wants to show the role of women in general for that period of time, and that Elisa realizes she could never be the strong woman she has the actual potential to be.

Question 6 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

What message about society is Steinbeck sending through this story?

Neighbors should share more with one another.

Husbands should encourage their wives.

Strangers cannot be trusted.

Strength and power can be present in some of the most unexpected people.

Question 7 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

Elisa agrees to let the stranger do some work for her because

she feels sorry for him.

he threatens her and she is afraid.

she feels they have made a connection with each other.

she wants him to leave quickly so Henry will not get jealous when he sees her speaking to a stanger.

Question 8 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

Use the following quote from the story to answer this question:

“Far ahead on the road Elisa saw a dark speck. She knew. She tried not to look as they passed it, but her eyes would not obey.”

Why does Elisa “try not to look” at what she sees in the road?

She knows the stranger has thrown her flowers down, and was only trying to get work from her.

She knows the stranger could not fix her pot, so he threw it down the road.

She knows it is a bird that has died, and cannot bring herself to look at it.

She knows Henry will be angry with her if she brings attention to it.

Question 9 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

Use the following quote from the story to answer this question:

“Far ahead on the road Elisa saw a dark speck. She knew. She tried not to look as they passed it, but her eyes would not obey.”

What does Elisa think the speck in the road is?

The pot she gave the stranger to fix for her.

The gloves she let the stranger borrow.

The chrysanthemums she let the stranger take to give a neighbor up the road.

The hat she let the stranger have, to keep the sun off his neck as he traveled.

Question 10 (Multiple Choice Worth 5 points)

Elisa’s greatest conflict is with

herself, as she does not know how to show her strength and power.

herself, as she does not know how to deal with Henry’s dominance over her.

other people, as she cannot take up for herself, and easily gets conned into doing things.

herself, as she cannot wait to move from the ranch and into town.

GardenersCardiff answers:

*Reading the text will allow you to find the answers to these questions. Note that you do not give the name of the source here*

Sandy asks…

what do you think i should do?

Okay so i got prego with my daughter when i was 18 then got kicked out then when i was 19 my mom dropped my 2 sisters off at my house and never came back to get them and so i got full custody of them and it ruined my sisters they have never been the same i am now 20 and taking care of my daughter and my 2 sisters and am 3 months prego. well my 2 sisters are 4 and 14 and they miss my mom so much and they cry every night and they still do my 4 year old sister made me put a phone in her room so she could hear it if my mom ever called and there will be times when she wants to go on a walk and look for mommy and it hurts me so much because i accualy got in touch with my mom a year ago which was 2 months after she dropped them off with me and she told me she never wanted to see the brats again and i just wish she could see what shes doing to my sisters she is tearing them apart my 14 year old sister takes it easier then the 4 year old. 2 weeks ago i found out where my mom is staying and was trying to figure out weather i should go by and talk to her and see if theres anyway she would come back in my sisters lives or if i should take them by to see her because today which is mothers day my 4 year old sister picked flowers out of the garden and came to me and said can we find mommy and give these to her because i know how much she loves them and that just tore me up its so sad watching them cry every night wishing she would come back. in a way i really do not want my mom to come back in there lives because she is not stable at all and i know she will just run off and leave them again and i do not want then to go through that again i do not think they could handle it and so im leaning more towards not contacting my mom and leaving it alone but then i feel like im letting my sisters down and not helping them see there mom again but i know she does not want to see them because if she did she would of came by to see them because she knows where i live its been a year since they have seen her so i guess it probably would be better if i leave it alone and not contact her right? so do you think it would be better off for them to talk or see there mom again or if i should just leave it alone and tell them that i can not find mom and that she loves them but needs time away? so please suggestions are wanted
i would def talk to my mom before i ever made a decision weather i want them to see her or talk to her but if she does not want to see her talk to her i am not going to force it because i can not stand to put my sisters through that i am still deciding weather i want to put myself through it an go talk to her but thanks for your help it means alot and im sorry about your situation also. and if you do not mind i might have my 14 year old sister email you one day so she can talk to you about it and maybe you can help her thanks again
see them or talk to them***

GardenersCardiff answers:

Hi. I’m fourteen and I can kind of relate to your sister who is my age. My mom went crazy on our family and long story short we don’t talk, only because it’s court ordered. But I see her once every two weeks and I’m supposed to call her Mon, Wed, Fri. I miss the old her a lot and it still hurts a lot, to know she’s not there, I mean she is but its not the woman who I knew for 12 years of my life, who my best friend was. I think you being the adult in the situation, you could possibly chat with your mom but maybe only tell the oldest sister about it, if you don’t think she can handle it, don’t, but I’d say maybe go visit your mom a couple times and get talking, maybe convince her. It’s going to be hard, especially on you, but if you need to talk feel free to email me. Good luck and god bless you & Happy Mothers Day.

Sorry I thought I had mentioned my email, its cmod82@gmail.com, I check it more than yahoo. And its fine, I’d be more than happy to help.

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