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For the Best Gardeners in the Cardiff Area

   Oct 10

Your Questions About Gardening

Lisa asks…

Can some one please give me some advice?

I’m 17 years old and I feel like I have wasted my whole life trying to find myself. I’m not good at anything, I’ve never accomplished much. I’ve failed 3 times and I’m so far behind it makes me angry. All of my other family and friends are graduating, and I’m not even close. I attend school online because I have anxiety attacks when I’m around large groups of people. Even though online school is much easier for me, I lack the motivation needed to finish my classes. I always ask for help when doing assignments because I can never concentrate enough to understand a problem. This makes me feel stupid, as if I’ll never be able to finish school because I’m not smart enough to meet the standards. I’m always irritated, and most of the time I’m not sure why.
I moved in my boyfriend about a year ago. I love him a lot but most of the time I can’t stand to be around him. He never lets me do anything. He never respects that fact that I like to be left alone once in a while, and when I say that its makes him want to annoy me until we start fighting. He also has a habit that I’m sick and tired of, he constantly talks to girls on the internet. Adds hundreds of girls he doesn’t even know on Facebook, and pretends to be in a relationship with them. I’m constantly stuck in a house with 7 people that treat me like a 2 year old. I can’t participate in my normal hobbies because everyone thinks I’m incapable of doing anything. I have many things I like to do in my free time, such as cooking. I’m unabled to cook the way I would like to because everytime I’m near the stove the whole house thinks I’m going to ruin the food. I know how to cook, and I cook great, I just want to be able to share my cooking skills with my boyfriend without being shoved away from the stove. I’ve tried gardening, but the one time I did buy soil, some starting pots, and some seeds, every one thought it was like a charity and they used all my stuff to grow they’re own stuff. It made me really angry because I spent about $55 on gardening things, and I didn’t even get to use it. I can’t even play video games anymore because of the constant nagging in my ear of, “girls shouldn’t play video games”, “you suck”, and “Your dead, now its my turn.” I can’t enjoy life anymore if I’m stuck in this house.
I know I should probably get out of this situation, and I have tried. I’ve packed all my things and moved them back into my parents house, but he walked all the way to my house, sat on my doorstep and cried until I came out.
I’m not sure what to do anymore, all I need is help, but I can’t find it.
Can some one please give me some advice?

GardenersCardiff answers:

Sigh….I know EXACTLY how you feel. Someone once told me, the past is the past, there is nothing you can do to change that. The best you can do is to move on and do better than before. The only way you can know what you’re good at is to expose yourself to different things. Start with things you like or things that interest you. As far as games, if you want to play, go right ahead. I like girls that can play video games. Definitely a plus for me. And don’t think that a change of address will change your life. If you work hard and do well where you DON’T like to be then imagine how you’ll do where you’re most comfortable. The more you start taking responsibility then the more people will respect you and the more you will be trusted with and be allowed to do.

Joseph asks…

Do muslims agree with the quran?

With what the quran says

Quran:

Have sex with your women whenever and as often as you like. 2:223
# Women have rights that are similar to men, but men are “a degree above them.” 2:228
# A woman is worth one-half a man. 2:282
# Marry of the women two, or three, or four. 4:3
# Males are to inherit twice that of females. 4:11
# Lewd women are to be confined to their houses until death. 4:15
# You may not forcibly inherit women, unless they flagrantly lewd. 4:19
# Instructions for exchanging wives 4:20
# “All married women (are forbidden unto you) save those (captives) whom your right hands possess.” You can’t have sex with married women, unless they are slaves obtained in war (with whom you may rape or do whatever you like). 4:24
# Men are in charge of women, because Allah made men to be better than women. Refuse to have sex with women from whom you fear rebellion, and scourge them. 4:34
# Don’t pray if you are drunk, dirty, or have touched a woman lately. 4:43
# Women are feeble and are unable to devise a plan. 4:98
# They invoke in his (Allah’s) stead only females. 4:117
# A man cannot treat his wives fairly. 4:129
# “Unto the male is the equivalent share of two females.” 4:176
# When it’s time to pray and you have just used the toilet or touched a woman, be sure to wash up. If you can’t find any water, just rub some dirt on yourself. 5:6
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 11:78
# Lot offers his daughters to a mob of angel rapers. 15:71
# When the doom of Allah comes, pregnant women will suffer miscarriages, nursing mothers with forget their babies. 22:1-2
# You don’t have to be modest around your wives or your slave girls “that your right hand possess.” 23:6
# If you accuse an honorable women of adultery, be sure to bring four witness. Otherwise you will receive 80 lashes. 24:4
# A husband can accuse his wife of adultery with only one witness. 24:6
# Believing women must lower their gaze and be modest, cover themselves with veils, and not reveal themselves except to their husbands, relatives, children, and slaves. 24:31
# If Muhammad’s wives are good, Allah will give them “an immense reward.” 33:28-29
# The wives of Muhammad will be punished double for lewdness. (And that is easy for Allah.) 33:30
# The wives of Muhammad are not like other women. They must not leave their houses. 33:32-33
# When Allah or Muhammad decide that a man and a woman should marry, they must marry. 33:36
# Allah gave Zeyd to Muhammad in marriage. This was so that all Muslims would know that it’s OK to marry your adopted son’s ex-wife. 33:37
# Allah says it is lawful for Muhammad to marry any women he wants. 33:50-51
# If men must speak to Muhammad’s wives they must speak from behind a curtain. And no one must ever marry one of his wives. 33:53
# But it’s OK for Muhammad’s wives to talk with certain people. 33:55
# Women must cover themselves when in public. 33:59
# Those who “did wrong” will go to hell, and their wives will go to hell with them (no matter how they behaved). 37:22-23
# But the single-minded slaves of Allah will enjoy a Garden filled with lovely-eyed virgins. 37:40-48
# Female companions await those who enter the Gardens of Eden on the Day of Reckoning. 38:52
# Allah will reward faithful Muslims after they die with “fair ones with wide, lovely eyes.” 44:54
# Allah will reward those in the Garden with beautiful wives with wide, lovely eyes. 52:20
# Those who disbelieve in the afterlife give female names to angels. 53:27
# Allah will give those in the Garden women of modest gaze whom neither man nor jinn have touched before them. 55:56
# Allah will reward believing men with “fair ones” (beautiful women) in heaven. 55:71-72
# Those in the Garden will be attended by immortal youths with wide, lovely eyes. 56:17-23
# Allah made virgins to be lovers and friends to those on his right hand. 56:36-37
# Your wives and children are your enemies. They are to you only a temptation. 64:14-15
# Instructions for divorcing your wives. 65:1-6
# Allah’s rules for divorcing wives that have not yet reached puberty. 65:4
# Muhammad’s wives need to be careful. If they criticize their husband, Allah will replace them with better ones. 66:5
# The wives of Noah and Lot (who were both righteous) betrayed their husbands and are now in the Fire. 66:10
# Doom is about to fall on all disbelievers. Only worshippers (Muslims) and those who preserve their chastity (except with their wives and slave girls) will be spared from “the fires of hell” that are “eagar to roast.” 70:1-30
# You don’t have to be chaste around your wives or your slave girls. 70:29-30
~

GardenersCardiff answers:

I disagree.

Daniel asks…

the sheep and the goats?

when was the last time you had to go into hospital for treatment?
if you were seriously ill but were looked after until you were better, did you feel grateful to the people who made you better?
i’m sure you have heard people say i am really grateful to someone because they helped me when i was down….the entire human family is down in a literal sense ever since the rebellion in the garden of eden.
because of the unwise choice adam and eve made in disobeying god
in eating from the tree of the knowledge of good and bad, they lost their physical perfection along with the prospect of living forever and instead they inherited imperfection and along with that was sin which brought death to them.
and because they were no longer perfect and now under the sentence of death, they passed that onto us their children.
now thats where our creator stepped in on our behalf by transferring his first born son (who we now know was and is jesus) into the womb of mary who gave birth to him and when it was the appointed time jesus went to be babtised and then he began preaching and telling people to repent, learn the truth about god, get babtised and join in with the preaching campaign.
now there are many organizations today that preach to people but
jesus mentioned when he was on earth that there would be religious imposters that would rise up in order to mislead people.
and there would also be the genuine christians who are loyal and faithful to jesus and the first century christians.
now we are living in modern day times, who would you say are the ones that are loyal and faithful and which ones are the imposters?
if you have found the genuine christians, would you be willing to learn the truth about god and jesus and dedicate your life to god and there after live to do his will which is to preach the good news of gods kingdom?
would you be willing to change any bad habits that go against gods standards in order to be acceptable to god?
or are you more used to setting your own standards as to what is right and wrong?
remember the fatal error of adam and eve who decided to go against what they were told was wrong…and with that thought in mind, would you say it is wise or unwise to obey god?
also what would you say prevents you from being humble and submitting to our creator?
is it pride?
fear?
a lack of humility?
a feeling that you are signing your lives away?
the thought of no longer setting your own standards?
sooner or later we will all have to make a decision
because jehovahs witnesses have long been warning us of gods soon to come adverse judgement against the corrupt system with live under.
the bible clearly states that all of us who fail to obey gods witnesses
will be destroyed as well as those of us that dont know god.
only those that do obey and know god will be spared.
but more importantly is that the world empire of false religion (babylon the great) will be turned against by the political powers and destroyed.
we are living in the time of that fullfillment.
in that day gods true worshippers will be vidicated because they are the only ones that preach and warn people of that.
the bible also says that once false religion has be removed, the political powers will turn against jehovahs witnesesses
but that will prove to be a fatal error because thats when god almighty will respond on his worshippers behalf and that is the day described as armedgedon.
so basically everyday is a chance for all of us to as it were turn around and bring our lives into harmony with gods requirements because the afore said things without fail will occur and if we are not ready we wont survive.
now is the time for us to sober up and take it seriously.
and i can tell you that to do so is not easy
because we as people are so used to doing things our own way
which makes obedience to god through his people a real challenge
because we find that pride often gets in the way.
we tend to say, who are you to tell me what to do?
or i’ll do things my way!
or i dont want to change!
everyday i struggle to come to terms with the fact that if i wish to survive armedgeddon, i need to submit to do gods will.
that seems to be something none of us want to do.
would you do it?
sorry sirensong
i wrote far too much
but i’m grateful for your advice.
yes geordie
sorry, i tend to write far too much, thats a fault i have yet to overcome.
i guess i’m just bubbling over with concern from what i have learnt and i just want to do my bit in order to inspire people to at least listen to what gods people are trying to say to us.
sirensong
thanks for at least being open and honest with your thoughts at present.

and in regard to there being no evidence of god,
the evidence is you and i and the universe and everything in it.
remember too that god is a spirit which is invisible therefore he cannot be seen with the human eye
also the bible says that humans cannot see god and remain alive in the same way bright lights force us to look away or squint.
you cant see me but you know i exist because i am writing to you
and i know you exist because you responded to me.
god has written to us via his word the bible.

GardenersCardiff answers:

Just remember Jehovah is asking us to be spiritual people now and to keep our integrity to him and we will be able to subdue the earth and enjoy all that is in it at a later time when no resident will say, “I’m sick.”

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