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question about stretch marks?!?

so i have stretch marks from growing and they really bother me. i was looking up some things and i came across mixing ground up coffee beans and hand lotion and i was wondering if anyone has ever tried it? if so..did it work at all? and would it matter if i ground up my own coffee beans or if i just went to the store and bought some folgers coffee?
ALSO
i’m about to go get my thyroid checked because i have a size 36DD bra and i’m not fat…i just have really big boobs so my sister says i should get it checked out so i was wondering..if i do have something wrong with it…what could they do to help it?
like is there medications they’ll put me on? or diets? or what?
thanks for all of your help!
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Do you think she likes me?

I’ve been getting to know a girl at work for the past little while, and I’m finding myself very interested in her. A close female friend of mine who works with us has told me many times that she thinks Lisa (that’s not her name, I’ll use that as a pseudonym) is into me too. She is the quiet, slightly shy, wholesome type, mildly conservative in dress and in speech. Because she is a bit on the quiet side, most others at work don’t go too out of their way to talk with her, though everyone is on friendly “hi, how are you?” terms. But I’ve been drawn to Lisa since I first saw her, and even more after talking with her. She laughs at my wry, mildly flirtatious joking with her, and recently she has begun to tease me back a bit. After getting into a conversation about music one night, we discovered we like a lot of the same music. After that, she added me to Facebook. We have chatted there more, and just today we met up outside of work for the first time and had coffee and talked all afternoon. We talked about slightly deeper subjects instead of just music or things going on at school (we’re both university students), and instead she told me about her family, a bit about her as a kid growing up, we even talked about religion a bit. We talked all afternoon under a tree on campus, and then she had to work in the evening.

I know you might be thinking “man, she is interested in you!” but I’m just not sure. I don’t want to get my hopes up, I want a second opinion. Based on your own experiences, and from the information I’ve given you, what is your honest opinion? Do you think she is interested in me too? Do you think I should see her a few more times then ask her out on a date? I’d really appreciate the input of males and females! Thanks!

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Prof wonders what’s fair about Fair Trade?
TheStar.com – living – Prof wonders what’s fair about Fair Trade?

The goal was to shift more money to poor farmers

March 21, 2007
Stuart Laidlaw
Faith & Ethics Reporter
Gavin Fridell brings his own cup – emblazoned with the Trent University logo – when he goes to a coffee shop, chooses only Fair Trade coffee and comments on how he’s not doing enough to help poor farmers in developing countries.

“You can’t think that shopping is your ultimate political act,” he says in an interview at York University, where his book was launched last week. “You have to do more.”

Fridell, an assistant politics professor at Trent and a graduate of York, has just released Fair Trade Coffee: The Prospects and Pitfalls of Market-Driven Social Justice, a book taking a critical look at the successes and failures of the fast-growing Fair Trade sector.

Coffee is the top-selling product in the Fair Trade market, which includes such items as tea, chocolate, bananas, sugar and fruit juices. Long the preference of committed social activists, such products have gone mainstream in the last couple of decades, resulting in booming sales.

Fair Trade products must be produced under strict conditions – governing environmental sustainability, labour policies, education and income distribution – before the labelling agencies give the products their stamp of approval. The idea is to ensure that consumers’ dollars get to those producing the products.

Sales of Fair Trade coffee have quadrupled in Canada in the last decade, to more than 600 tonnes a year, Fridell writes. Worldwide, some 20,000 tonnes are sold each year, with a growth rate of almost 40 per cent as the coffee moves into new markets.

In his book, however, Fridell charges that such growth has come because Fair Trade has veered far from its founding goals more than 60 years ago to build an alternative trading system that emphasizes social justice and sustainable development over profit.

Instead, he says, Fair Trade has become caught up in consumer culture, and risks becoming little more that an “ethical fig leaf” for companies trying to ride on Fair Trade’s coat-tails to attract socially conscious customers.

Such a pairing, Fridell warns, could ultimately prove to be Fair Trade’s downfall. “Fair Trade has made gains, but at the expense of being co-opted.”

As well, he warns, large coffee companies are watering down the concept of Fair Trade by coming up with their own proprietary blends that sound socially conscious – such as shade-grown or eco-friendly coffee – but which have far less stringent guidelines than Fair Trade.

Fridell still supports buying Fair Trade products, and does so himself, as an act of solidarity with peasant farmers trying to build better lives for their families, but says merely doing so is not going to be enough to make for a truly just or equitable trading system.

That, he says, will take political action. “If you really want to build a world that’s truly just, you’re going to have to take your Fair Trade coffee knowledge and get political,” he advises. “Think about the party you vote for.”

While most people had never heard of Fair Trade products until a decade or so ago, the movement has been around since the 1940s, with Oxfam among its early proponents, Fridell writes.

It began as a reaction to an unequal power dynamic between poor developing countries and large multinational corporations that dominate trade.

The idea was to showcase how trade could better be used to encourage development in the Third World, pull more people out of poverty and, one trade deal at a time, build an alternative outside the corporate world.

That never happened. With early Fair Trade products being sold exclusively in specialty Fair Trade stores and church basements, their markets remained small and their influence limited.

By the late 1980s, many Fair Traders were arguing that they needed to get the corporations on board. Labelling systems were developed to help the products get into mainstream stores, with Fair Trade labels used to brand them as items worthy of a higher price.

Coffee companies were successfully lobbied to include Fair Trade products on their shelves, alongside conventional beans. Grocery stores began offering Fair Trade coffee, as well, vastly expanding the market for such products.

The shift, Fridell says, has made Fair Trade part of Western consumer culture, dependent on the whims of fickle shoppers and dangerously tied to large corporations.

Multinational Starbucks, for instance, has become Canada’s largest retailer of Fair Trade coffee, but is so large that ethically grown beans represent no more than 2 per cent of its annual sales.

Fridell says that while Fair Trade groups now need such big companies to stay afloat, those same chains don’t need Fair Trade for anything more than enhancing their corporate image. “They only have to get on board en